To start this new year I made the leap and found a new job with an incredible company. I for the first time feel valued and appreciated for the work I do. I have a drive to do better and work harder it is amazing how much "value" really means. I look forward to going in each day and I work hard for these guys and it is very rewarding when I am told "good job!" Weird how those two words can drive my spirit but they do. Moving forward is a great way to begin a new and I am mindful to my Heavenly Father and how he is ever present in my life. He is always reminding me that I am not alone (even when I have my hands over my ears) and that I am his daughter, I have many angels who help him because let's face it.... I am a big package and I need all the help he can muster.
I certainly did not choose this single parent life. When I married there dad I had the promise of eternity but when those dreams faded I realized that our lives had to change. For the record I did leave and yes I take ownership of that but was was the alternative? I wasn't going to stay in a marriage where my kids would learn that love is just something left in a story book. Did I expect that I would be single almost tens years later, um no but here I am. I do my best to teach my kids about life and love and all that comes with it, while relying on friends and family to fill in the gaps. I am blessed by all the hands who have helped me through the years and there have been many. Our journey is far from over but I am confident that the lord will continue to oversee this family with his many angels both here and beyond the veil.
In a few weeks we will be heading off to go camping. It something that we have done together with my sister since Kim my father passed and I look forward to that time every year. This year we will build memories that will help us become bigger better and stronger and with any luck this year it won't snow!
I know I am not the perfect mom and I will never profess to be but I wanted to say just a few words before I close.
I know that I yell when I should whisper
I know that I should be a little more patience
I know that am a little strong with my expectations
I know that I should kneel to pray more often
I know that I shouldn't say the things I do
I know that I am not perfect
When I yell it is because I need you to hear me.
When I am not patience it is because I am scared for you
When I ask you to do something it because I am teaching you something
It the quiet of my room I pray for you every single day
I sometimes forget .... we are not all perfect
Everyday I try to be a little better
I can only promise that I will do my best
when I fall below the line
love me ........don't judge me.
Words of a mother
Michele